Emotional Support

We recognize that receiving fertility treatments can be a very stressful and emotionally difficult journey. To address the psychological aspects of infertility, challenges in decision making, and other reproductive considerations, the Stanford Fertility & Reproductive Medicine Center offers individual and group support through our professional and caring counseling staff.

Penny Donnelly, RN MFT, Director

Penny Donnelly, RN MFT is the director of the support programs at Stanford’s Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility Center. She has developed and led a number of counseling and health education programs for patients and facilitates support groups for primary infertility, miscarriage, those considering ovum or sperm donation, and pregnancy. In addition, Penny founded and leads the nationally recognized mind/body program for infertility patients.

All clients seeking treatment through our clinic may receive one private counseling session at no charge. Ongoing support related to the complex medical and emotional considerations of treatment is available with Penny in a private practice setting.

Support Groups – Stanford IVF Program

Primary Support Group – This group is designed for women who have not had any children yet. The emphasis is on sharing in a warm and supportive environment with other women who are on a similar journey. We periodically incorporate mind/body modalities.

Secondary Support Group – This group is for women who have one or more child(ren) and are trying to have another. Their journey is frequently misunderstood. We also periodically incorporate mind/body techniques.

Donor Support Group – This group is for women who are exploring the possibility of having a child with the assistance of donor egg or sperm. The emotional, ethical, and logistical issues are explored. Issues related to disclosure are also discussed.

Pregnancy Support Group – This group is for women who are pregnant after infertility. Frequently these women are concerned and worried that these ‘cherished’ pregnancies are at risk. The group focuses on learning how to let go of fears and learn to enjoy and embrace the pregnancy.

Miscarriage Support Group - Although there are many promising treatments for patients with recurrent pregnancy loss, women often struggle in ways that are unique. Feelings of sadness, grief, and anxiety over the loss of an unborn child are often deeper and more severe than what would normally be expected. This journey can be complicated by fears of not being able to successfully carry a pregnancy to term and apprehensions about having the right mind-set to succeed. Women are invited to join this group that have experienced two or more pregnancy losses. It meets in the evenings, typically once every three or four weeks.

Click here to see the Support Group Schedule

For information, please email Penny Donnelly, RN MFT or call her at 650-723-6408.

Individual and couples counseling also available upon request.